No, however highly I value your opinion, the choice was mine. The humiliating thought was that I was in an open marriage, and I was tired of being a patsy, of having no control over this situation, and of setting a bad example for my Ds on how people should behave.
I agree!
Originally Posted by NickWing
I didn’t do it to punish, or make a statement.
Good because that wouldn't have worked anyway.
Originally Posted by NickWing
A D is only a piece of paper, tell the government the status of my marriage.
I agree!
Originally Posted by NickWing
Well, the status was it’s over, stick a fork in done. I needed to remove her from my life, and move on.
I agree! Moving on doesn't mean revenge or punishment
Originally Posted by NickWing
Again, stbxw wants it done, and now it’s being ramrodded by my L, so it’s moving. It could be done in six weeks.
