We have no connection ropes so to speak.... literally disappearing to dust.
This should happen to people who treat you as badly as your WAH treated you.
I hear you.
Keep in mind when we were married one could argue that there were times where I did not treat him as well as I should have either... that's a two way street we are navigating.
Granted... I'm not the one who is still currently lying and taking advantage of someone. I certainly don't think much of him right now but he is dealing with his own emotional demons so I'm staying on my side of the street.
Overall, its just unfortunate that 10yrs just didn't exist.