KitCat, I’m curious too about his reason for calling. You said he was calling you from 4am to 3pm, escalated to threats you feared, and you respected his position. Frivolous? Legitimate business?
He was texting me... I was NOT responding. I could tell he was feeling a bit trapped/emotionally on edge I guess. When I would not respond he ended up texting something like "don't you worry about, I will take care of it"
That is when I called him. He started playing games by not answering the phone... whatever. I texted and told him I was not ignoring him but I had been driving for 6hr. He answered when I called back.
I assume it had to do with the atty and the dissolution agreement.
He got kind of crappy like why didn't I email her today... I'm driving all day... well you could have done it before you started driving...
When he texted me earlier in the week I told him I was on vacation.
When we spoke about the terms of the dissolution I again said I was on vacation - oh, you're still on vacation? YES. I made it clear I would contact the atty when I was home next week.
I don't know if it was because I was on vacation??? He did this the last time I was out of town - contacted about the cell phone bill... contacted on Chrismas Eve could I pet sit puppy at the end of March... oh, you're not home yet??? The stupid part is that the timeshare info is in his name so that even though I've put in my address the mail still gets forwarded to him and he knows exactly when I'm out of town. ((FACEPALM)). Until its paid off the deed cannot be changed to my name only ---- it is what it is.
Either way I just ended the call with I needed a couple of days and we could talk later. I have not reached out since then and neither has he.
