Its weird that once the D is final we will have absolutely no reason to interact any longer. I'm not saying that a good or bad thing ---- its just a weird fact. We had 10yr of being each others other half.
OH, so he is going to get rid of the dog?
KC, you have no reason to interact now. You continue to make excuses to keep interacting. In fact, the quote above is very very telling. You are dreading the day when you no longer have an excuse to interact with him. And that explains a lot of your behavior in regard to him.
I think you misunderstood my tone... its not that I'm dreading it... I'm realizing it as a fact and it just seems so odd for someone who you knew for over a decade just disappears.
What I was more thinking about it is that he and his first XW have children so there will always be some sort of connection... interaction... updates.
We have no connection ropes so to speak.... literally disappearing to dust.
Again, this is more of realization/reflection than a concern.
Frankly, I don't think he will call or return with the dog. He was really an emotional state when we talked last Friday. I won't be contacting him... I'm tired of that emotional state... and I don't think he has it in himself to contact me anymore.
I sent all the finalized points that we discussed for the D to the atty. Now, just waiting for a document.
I am not buying that he won't still come to you about the dog.
And what was he emotional about? What were the subject of the texts at 4am? And what was talked about on the phone call?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
