I know LH you’ve made that point clear. We know she was OW multiple times in her twenties with the current Om, and we know she is now cheating with Om. My hunch is that she was not physically cheating on me for all previous years of the marriage. I believe she had some sort of connection to Om during this time though.
Isn’t that a cheeseless tunnel, trying to figure out what happened in the past?
The point I am making Nick is to accept this is who she is right now and will be for a really long time. Be thankful she is not your problem anymore she is OMs problem now. Be the better person and WW and go live an amazing life. Find a nice woman who is not a serial cheater and appreciates you for who you are as a man.
