Also based on the journals I have a hunch your W is a serial cheater.
I know LH you’ve made that point clear. We know she was OW multiple times in her twenties with the current Om, and we know she is now cheating with Om. My hunch is that she was not physically cheating on me for all previous years of the marriage. I believe she had some sort of connection to Om during this time though.
Isn’t that a cheeseless tunnel, trying to figure out what happened in the past?
