And I may disagree with Steve, that if it wasn’t this Om it would have been another. This guy is a manipulator and has had a huge hold on her in the past, so it’s like she never got over him even though they were apart physically for years. They have a godson together, his nephew.
So the OM forced your W on his c..k? The point here is that it is your W's fault, the OM may be a douche, but your W could easily deflect his advances. You said it yourself, he is a serial cheater.
Where did I say it wasn’t her fault? She has a unhealthy obsession with this guy she never got over, and he knew that and used it. They both know what they were doing is wrong but don’t care. I know from her journal she thinks OM is her soul mate, but I,think he is just using her as he has done in the past. Both are equally culpable.