Well driving home from vaca... I'm getting texts from H from 4am. I'm ignoring but you can tell he is emotionally on edge because he has not texted repeatedly like that without waiting for an answer from me in nearly 9months.
It was clear he was pitching a fit and threatening... I caved and called. He was angry and kept telling me how uncomfortable he was feeling... like a dozen times. I tried to sit and quietly state "I understand, I hear you, I respect that".
At one point I mentioned that maybe things could be better for him for his next M... He then the biggest deep fake belly laugh "what makes you think I would ever get M again?"... Me - "well I suspect that you will be proposing soon and M OW". He went on with this deep fake laugh "Why would I ever make that stupid mistake again?"
I just dropped it.
For starters he has continued to lie... he has no issues with using me/taking advantage of me... he thinks we are "friends"... and yup, I've been a friend... dropped everything more than once to help out with the puppy... dog sitting... BUT, what has he done in efforts to be "friends"? NOTHING. He knew I was struggling with some gutter issues at the house and he is coming to the house in 2 weeks to drop off the dog. It would literally take him 15min to do the gutter work... NEVER OFFERED to help. SO NO WE ARE NOT FRIENDS.
I got off the phone by stating we could talk in a couple of days... but I have NOT spoken to him since.
