My self-respect right now is probably higher than it has been in years.
That's fantastic, and I bet feels great.
Originally Posted by SaltyDog
I don't necessarily fear finding someone else either, part of me craves it and looks forward to a whole new life. And yet, I'm still here.
Hi Salty, "craving" someone else can be an attempt to recreate a co-dependency, especially if you begin dating while still open to reconciliation, or as soon as you decide not to reconcile. When the Co-Dependency Demon is defeated, one doesn't need another so badly or to complete them. Since I closed the door on reconciliation I've been solo and not dating for 2 months, and I intended to do so for a mother 2 months, to get my baggage in order. 4 months for a 4 year relationship to be ready for what's next.
