Sending her pictures of playing with the kids to try and appeal to the mom/wife that used to be there Asking how she's doing. Get drunk and send lengthy emails explaining what I'm feeling, how I miss her, etc. Get drunk and send guilt trip/angry messages Snooping Posting stupid, thinly veiled, passive aggressive things on Facebook
You just posted this so it looks like you have some more work to do.
I absolutely do, I haven't said otherwise. I can see all the dumb things I've done and do my best to recognize when the desire to do the next dumb thing comes up. Doesn't mean I won't do that dumb thing, but it is easier to avoid doing it when you are aware of it.
