Best friend for 27 years in MLC part 3

[OnlyBent]

NW, regardless of what you think of LH’s comments, the fact is multiple people here have suggested you put the vindictive mindset behind you. Yes, what happened to you was sh!tty but no more or less so than everyone else’s story here. What you are being told from people’s own experience is that this resentment, need for revenge and bitterness will primarily hurt yourself. It’s ugly, unattractive and is not the way to move forward with your head held high.

Maybe you tell OM’s W to get tested for STD’s, but are you really doing it for her or to satisfy your need for revenge. The best revenge is just moving the fck on and living a great life, it will be over before you know it, do you want to waste it on all this scheming and plotting?

I feel for you NW, like I feel for everyone here, I truly wished this forum didn’t exist and that we could all have the marriages and spouses we wished for. Nothing hurts like betrayal from the one who was supposed to love you the most. But, sh!tty things happen in life, there’s no other option than to accept it and make the best of the hand we’ve been dealt.