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Nick join the club of LBS who were blamed for the disintegration of the marriage. 99% of the WWs here do not do the honorable thing and D first. Why should she move out that is half her stuff and house too? She tried to hide it from your daughters and you but you were too busy trying to exploit it. Lastly, I know your personality type and I can promise you that you are not an innocent bystander.

I’m not trying to bash you man I’m trying to get you to do the right thing and walk away. Yes I think what your stbxw did was $hitty to you and the girls. My guess is their were some red flags before you got married and you over looked them. It’s time to start to heal and put this behind you. Dude the old HS rekindle is most certainly going to blow up in her face on its OWN. [/quote]


That’s some pretty hefty mind reading.

No, you don’t know my personality type from some posts on the board and this is not the first time you’ve alluded to my culpability. Can you please give me an example? I’ve stated on this board that I could have been a better husband, is that what you mean?

As for hiding it from me and my daughters, I only discovered it when she was on speakerphone with OM while in the bubble bath and it was so loudI could here it in the next room. So she is not being discrete. Her lying to her daughters and telling them to lie to me is disgraceful.

As far as leaving the house which I pay for along with all the bills, I feel that if you are with Om you shouldn’t be in the house. And LH, didn’t you tell Curtiz7 to pack up his wife’s stuff and move it out?


Me 57/W 53, M 23, T 27

D21/D17

BDay 6/29/20, ILYBINILWY

IHS 10/5/2020