You walk away and go live a great life. Don’t waste your time with tracers, files and pressing charges. Eventually you will find a woman who wants to be with you. Don’t chase one who doesn’t and don’t try to ruin their lives.
If you need to do something to feel better then email Oms wife and let her know she might want to get tested for STDs.
^^^ this. All of this energy put into snooping/revenge/justice etc would probably be much more productive to put into yourself. I get that you are hurt, and you're acting on that, and scorched earth can feel like it'd be satisfying, but what's the point?
in an earlier post when Steve asked what you're doing to GAL and said you are focusing too much on her:
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The only interactions we have are unavoidable ones. I work to arrange her schedule so there will be days when we dont even see each other.
The funny thing is, her and OM are way more interested in what Im doing. STBXW thought there was another tracker on the car, because I was in the garage too much, and I wasnt getting anything out of the refrigerator there. They talk about how many times i walk the dog, everything. Every word I say is over analyzed.
Things that are avoidable = spying, tracking, obsessing over her every move in the same way you say she is with you. Sounds like a lot of time and effort you could be using to GAL.
What is this intel that you keep referring to? Are you recording their conversations or something?
