Both? Dude it [censored] but you need to take it like a man.
Do you think your W has STDs?
Both what? Explain what take it like a man means?
If stbxw engages in illegal activity, why should she not bear the consequences? I’m not going to fabricate a case, but if something I report has merit, let it work through the system.
I found out from the journal my wife had multiple stds before we met. She didn’t know who she got them from or who she gave them to. So when I discovered Om, I was tested (negative)
Should the one in a million reconciliation occur, a testing would be necessary.