Okay, all of you who disagree quit posting on my thread.
JUST KIDDING!!
Any and all feedback is appreciated.
I had the tracker since October and never put it on. I find it really telling that stbxw already had an rf detector to find it. Proves their mindset. I’ll admit that hearing stbxw say she was frazzled and paranoid made me happy because I wasn’t actually doing anything, their guilty consciences were punishing them.
I only went down this path after stbxw left our daughter at home alone and used hotel points we had been saving for a family trip to go to South Beach with OM. After that I said this is hopeless, filed, and put on the tracker.
I’m just getting my ducks in a row. After D I’m reporting her to the state licensing board because adultery is a misdemeanor. So at least she’ll get some nasty official letters. Preparing a file for Om wife, I think she is standing, but does not know all the facts. Om lives in an at fault state and is president of a 20 million plus company so he stands to lose a lot. Om is a huge manipulator, so he may be lying about leaving his wife.
But I’m committed to telling my Ds the truth after this divorce. I believe it will clarify a lot of things. Stbxw is lying to them, much like JosephS wife, and I need to able to clear the air.
The ultimate cake eat would be have affair, destroy family, and say it was mutual. No, the facts are what they are.
I can’t in a million years think that reconciliation is in any way possible, but I did not think I would be where I am either. Last year at this time I thought stbxw and I would strolling South Beach.
