Originally Posted by AndrewP
It's good though to be able to hold your head high and know that you've been true to yourself. You've certainly done this as a marathon going back to 2016.

Welcome to the slower moving side.

I do also think it's a load of hooey that "kids are resilient". And your's have gone through this at a very vulnerable age. As we always say - thank heavens that there's at least one sane parent.

Hopefully he'll soon be out from underfoot - I understand that Hefty makes lovely matching luggage. I see that they have both a 42 gallon and 55 gallon "contractor" set crazy



Thanks, Andrew, I needed that laugh today! I do have some good days, but today is not one of them. The stbx is missing a sensitivity chip, so it can be hard. One day, I think I have a handle on it, and on another day, I think I never will! Thank goodness for good friends. And for learning to take care of myself as best as possible.


me: 46 h: 49
m: 24 T: 27
DD1:20 DD2:17 DS:12
BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016
BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016
BD3: H wants a D 11/2019
Now: He is in the same house, but has filed for divorce.