Sat night went into cheeseless tunnel and tried to talk to stbxw. She keeps telling kids things and tells them not to tell daddy, putting them in a real spot. But I also aske her what the story is on why we are getting divorced. She say we both have different goals and values. Yeah, mine is we should not sleep with other people.
Well, guess who OM (or at east one of them) is...
From a prior post.
...Ok, so a couple months ago I was intel gathering (snooping) and I came across something that explained a lot. Her journal from when she was 16 to about 24.I couldnt believe it. Parts of it were she is sad because her father abandoned the family, and why her mther could not keep a husband. I never knew any of this before. Most of the stuff from High School to college was about her and her HS boyfriend, who she is still friends with his family. We got an Xmas card from them this year. A lot of the stuff was waiting for HS boyfriend to call, crying when he went on a ski trip for a week, being angry when he caled late, etc. But a lot of it was them having sex, mainly oral sex in his car, he had a VW Beetle. He called it Buggy Ride. And they would break up, and she would cry and he would come back and have sex, then break up again. This started when she was 16. And this broke my empathy meter. One time he asked for a Buggy Ride (he called it that to her face) , and she did not want to, she performed it anyway. She wrote in her journal she didnt want to, but no one ever listens to her. Sad....
And...
Later, HS boyfriend comes back to town with new fiancee, she has sex in the car with him. Then HS boyfriend (still engaged, but new fiancee) returns to his job in another city, she goes there for a week, stays in his place, and has sex with him.
HS boyfriend for years does this and W is in full pursuit. Calls to him, letters to him and SIL, etc. They are meant to be with each other. HS boyfriend at one time says they are done, but will set her up with one of his friends, and they can all hang out.
Yep, intel confirmed yesterday its HS boyfriend who just separated from his wife of 27 years and moved out. The guy that kept her as a side piece and dumped her 4 times.
Their conversation was disgusting. Talk total Sh** on me and other LBW. No empathy for us, the children. only empathy is for themselves. LBW cries and HS boyfriend is mad because she is making him uneasy.
Get this STBXW found the tracker I put in the car, my car. She has a wand that detects them. Nothing like a prepared cheater.
