One foot in front of the other

[Elbereth]

So go travel! I went a couple years ago to Europe by myself. For three weeks. It was awesome but hard too, as this was when we were in limbo land. So sometimes I cried because I knew we would probably never take this trip together. Oh well, onward. Anyway, this is YOUR life and we have to make it exciting and happy whether we are alone or not. Traveling is one of my favorite things.

Wow! Sounds amazing! Yeah, I would be sad in some ways too...as he promised me some trips and they never happened. So disappointing.

If you read my stitch I'm also in the process of the D, on my initiative now since that is what he wanted but did not do anything for it. I strongly believe, as far as the stories I have read and the advice given, that it is better to arrange the D ASAP, even if you still want to stand. (is only arranging financial security in my opinion)
I have no L and working on an divorce with mutual consent and for the moment this is working. Let's hope...
You are doing well Elbereth, definitely so soon after BD!

Yeah, I'm mostly doing it because I realize I have no choice and need to protect myself financially. Even if I wanted to stand and try to make the MR work, I need to protect myself as it may never happen. But he is also insisting he still wants to divorce but also has dragged his feet, and he's spending a lot of money, so what choice do I have? You are right, if I decide to stand, I can do it regardless of D. Thanks for your advice Eagle3. Yeah, it's up to us to make our own new memories right?

And CWarrior, I will definitely ping you if I decide to do National Parks. But first on my bucket list is outside of the US, like Europe!