So Ace it’s good to come to the forum and read the board and the advice of the people who have been through it. What’s bad is when you don’t follow the advice. What I’m seeing right now is 3 or 4 left behind husbands making tons of mistakes and then coming to the board and seeing everyone else making mistakes so it comforts them. They think yeah I’m screwing up but so is “so and so”.
Quite frankly in 6 years here I don’t think I’ve seen so many bad dbers. Just sticking to Sandis rules seems impossible for the current dbers. This also explains why we haven’t had a success story in a really long time.
I know that it’s hard because I’ve been through it but I feel most LBS aren’t even trying to follow advice.
