It seems quite strange how she started sended a bunch of message after you put in a boundary, something to think about maybe. Also weird that she brought up seeing the OM to you and telling you why she did without you asking her, and then also telling you where she is at or giving a general update about removing dating profiles, etc. and then saying doesnt owe you further explanations. Wondering why she gave you the update in the first place.
How did all her messages and updates make you feel or think about the situation, did it give you hope or make you overthink?
Hang in there man and be strong when you see her.
Me 32, W 24 T 6, M 3 No kids BD: Aug 2020 OM: Jan 2021 Wife to file soon