Originally Posted by Steve_
Only thing that can is time and distance and maybe if you were a good H she can come around later and maybe yall can try to rebuild an M 2.0 but until she pursues you for it, your holding onto thin air.

It might sound counter-intuitive, but once I really internalized that, it helped give me some sense of control. As if the tables had turned somehow and as long as she's cake eating I know things aren't going to get better and that allows me to move on.