Trying to heal from WW - part 2

[Steve_]

This is the DB forum type stuff we need, yes the 2x4's are good for growth but explaining how its not abnormal to stew, to grasp, to feel this way. That helped me a lot. Ace I am still not detatched. I know right now if my WW came over, stripped her clothes off and proposed to get remarried id accept it. However my small victory was in just not being so available to her plan changing, her cake eating. You are actually ahead of me, the only thing we got in common at this time really is that any little positive interaction we see as hope, like the door is cracked open to recon, and it isnt man. When someone wants to recon they walk through the door, they dont leave it cracked. Door is shut my friend. Took me 6 months to see that.

Just understand you have no control, no power, no plan, no trick that will fix this. Only thing that can is time and distance and maybe if you were a good H she can come around later and maybe yall can try to rebuild an M 2.0 but until she pursues you for it, your holding onto thin air. Believe me I was doing this up until very recently.