I wonder what my ex thinks about me being single 13 later. Like he was right, there really is something wrong with me. No one has wanted me or committed to me in 13 years. He must have been right about whatever he thought was unlovable and leaves me about me.
Girlfriend - you have to stop listening to that ugly voice in your head. Your stupid ex probably thinks “oh, she can’t find anyone to compare with MY manly self!” Because that’s the kind of idiot he is.
You’re not unlovable. You just have to let the right kind of guy in. And loving yourself and valuing yourself is the first step.
