Right now, all he is concerned about is someone to dog sit the puppy. His focus on on his vacation and getting away. Once he's away and he starts to think about what you have told him about your conversation w/your lawyer, he very well may change his tune and come to realize that he's got more to lose w/the divorce. Let's see what he has to say about all of this when he returns from his vacation. I don't think he's going to be as agreeable about the division of property/funds. I may be wrong, but I don't think so.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
