One foot in front of the other

[Oceangl]

You sound like you are in a good place, and I love that! IMO, you need a L even in the most amicable situation, just because we aren't well-versed in law and it's good to have a guide.

So go travel! I went a couple years ago to Europe by myself. For three weeks. It was awesome but hard too, as this was when we were in limbo land. So sometimes I cried because I knew we would probably never take this trip together. Oh well, onward. Anyway, this is YOUR life and we have to make it exciting and happy whether we are alone or not. Traveling is one of my favorite things.