I then called STBXH today and discussed with him that I was informed that my portion of his pension was twice the value that we both thought it was.... He was surprised by that as was I. He than asked for a number.
I gave him the very top highest number that my atty thought would be possible...
And, he said "ouch"... then okay.
I then went on and listed other items which he would be financially responsible for as well as I wanted a very small portion of liquid assets.
He just agreed to everything... He asked how soon this was to be written up. I told him as soon as I am back from vacation I will follow up with my atty.
STBXH then asked "your still okay to watch puppy when I'm on vacation"... I told him "yes". I will be working out how he can drop off/pick up the dog without seeing me or talking to me.
I know no one here is surprised. Its been a long road and I'm just numb at the moment.
