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A few things. My brother passed away last week. He had been really sick for the last couple of weeks. He was 9 yrs older than me and was a severe diabetic. He had suffered greatly the last few years with multiple hospital stays, leg amputation, and chronic ailments. We weren’t super close, but he was primarily who I was closest to in my family. He was hilarious and a great guy. My mom is my only immediate living family member and we have a bit of a strained relationship. However, I’m not sure exactly what I feel but I do know I feel overwhelmed with some things to do with care for my mom. I won’t go into specifics but something happened that kind of rattled my faith in some family. Sigh. I do hope my brother is at peace. He deserved that.

CanBird, I was on Hinge for 2 weeks year before last. I went out with a few people and all were cool. I find all apps to be the same if I’m being honest. It’s not the platform that’s the issue- it’s some of the people on the platform that some would consider the issue.

All of this happening made me realize I would like a partner. I just don’t know if I’ll find one. If it’s not too much to ask, please send positive vibes my way as I need to navigate some familial issues. I’m a bit nervous and anxious about some of them. I can no longer do crazy and I witnessed that today.

Thanks all. Hope everyone is safe and well.

Last edited by job; 03/10/21 01:10 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread


3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
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