Originally Posted by Mumin
For perspective.

I lived in a, what you called, partial IHS for over a year.
Its hard but its doable and I am really glad I stuck to it. Didnt buckle after this board put me straight.
Slept in my bed and XW in a cabin/shed outside when she was here (50% living with OM).

Hey Mumin - for some reason I thought I had already read your threads but apparently not. Just went through them and see a ton of similarities (especially with LH trying to get things through our thick skulls!). Thanks for sharing all of what you went through, it helped to read it and identify with someone who is/was having similar feelings.