Hi Pommy Nice to hear from you and glad you survived Covid!
I know you say your H is making progress but its a little hard to tell at this moment. He's been wafting for quite awhile and seems honestly - stuck - whilst still enjoying all the pleasures of a married life.
Is him not having those kind of feelings acceptable for you? And for how long? Perhaps it would be good to think about how long you are will to stand. 2 years is an awfully long time and your MC is adding another 12-18 months??
How is he trying to meet your needs? . What is he doing differently this time? What are you willing to do differently?
You anxiety makes sense because he is consistent on his pattern to go back to OW. How do you break the pattern?
((Pommy))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.