Following up from my other post

[ovrrnbw]

The first is hard for me, I just don't know how to let go of being in love with her AND when I see her AND when she send me text messages outside of picture of our daughter like this morning I get so confused:
(Picture of a vintage sweater with the text "Mom found this baller sweater I used to wear 😂"

She only likes my social media posts that have to do with our daughter, never any of my personal ones.

I really think she is conflicted AND she is the most stubborn person I know. I feel her conviction to be unattached. I believe she was working on herself shortly after she left the house and has begun her deeper healing work - and so am I.

I typically get real spun out when I relive the past AND now I know of someone that wants to date her - which is really getting me spiraling

How to let go? You just treat her like someone you don't know. And yes, she is going to only like your daughter's picture on social media. I'd get off social media if I were you, but either way do you expect all of your ex's to like your stuff online? It's an unreasonable expectation at a time when you should have zero expectations.

Also, when two people split up, it is a given that they will date others eventually.

Go to your daughter's bday party, dress nice, put on a good outfit. Look good, sound good, feel good. You have to fake it here, act like you don't care and are moving on, act strong. Be attractive. Eventually you will have practiced this so much that you won't be faking it anymore. She'll be interested in you if you are strong, masculine but not if you are pouty and hurt by her not liking your facebook pictures.