Pack, I really appreciate you clarifying how things were before the marriage took place. Based on the accounts you gave of being in a committed R, then I have to agree that she cheated.
I am so happy to hear you talk about focusing on you and your future. I can usually tell when a LBH is beginning to accept the reality of his WW and when he starts letting go of the idea he can win her back. His posts are less about his WW, and more about him.
You are going to be fine, Pack.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
