I do enjoy when you find unexpected wisdom like you did, and I have to LOL b/c MWD wrote about how people gain many misconceptions about relationships from Hollywood.
Ultimately, it is crazy how R's can snowball like this and understand these dynamics logically can allow people here to step back and make rational decisions about how to break such a cycle. I still find myself getting sucked into complacency and old habits.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.