XW: Hey can I borrow your screwdriver? Putting up curtains.
She also came by the house this morning without notice to bring by kids stuff.

Need to set some boundaries and/or tell her I’m not her buddy.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021