OMG. I could just imagine him beaming all proud of his new art. And then him excitedly going off to find daughter to show her. Most unsuspected isn’t it?
Glad you had a nice walk together. He even suggested walking the dogs. And then he told you about a second tattoo on his back. What an interesting day.
You did perfect by the way. Validating and being nonjudgemental gave him the opportunity to open up and tell you all about it.
Good for you. Keep your expectations dialled to zero. In a few days he could by upset again. Or maybe not.
You performed and reacted so very well. You are in control of yourself! So proud of you. In truth, a tattoo on my XW would probably yield a remark from me. Lol. I’m going to use your example if/when she ever does that. Well, hopefully I will.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
