So sorry you had to find out all that, and with all those details too, I understand how hurtful that must have been.
It’s great that you’ve recognised your growth, but please don’t stop growing just because you’ve made the decision to move on. It’s a lifelong journey my friend, keep at it. The people here will be still here whatever happens.
Thanks OB. I will keep growing and hopefully now I can grow in other ways without this albatross on my back.