I point out that this situation is entirely of her own making, she is lazy and underemployed, and that these are foreseeable results. And she wont discuss her personal life with you, so she is obviously not your friend.
I'm glad you were able to help your friend with some solid advice!
Originally Posted by NickWing
I not only lost my best friend who morphed emtionally into some cold hateful shrew (but looks better that she's looked in years) but I also lost my co parent.. This time STBXW is going to walk away with. boatload of cash.. alimony
They say brain scans of a broken heart show many of the same markers as a physical injury, and then these other losses (money, trust, a co-parent) come on top. Be kind to yourself this weekend. I'm glad you're talking to a friend--that and exercise are wonderful GAL activities. If you can coach others like that, as long as take time to reflect, I antiicipate wise decisions in the near future from you for you too.
