Steve_letting go part 3.

[LH19]

Steve,

I will start by saying I see a very slight improvement in you.

WW got me a pair of nikes made for nurses that I wanted. Told me she wants to go to Hawaii with me in a month and the kids. To take the time off work.

Are you considering going?

Became very sweet. I went over to her moms to get mine and my kids hair cut and she asked me to go hiking, to come over etc etc.

I really think you should get their haircuts elsewhere

I just sat there and looked at her in the most like are you serious look I could muster and said “honey I’m not a side husband. You can be single or you can be with me fixing this, it’s not both.” She just said “well I’m not even going out of doing anything just be patient let me see if this is what I want” I laughed and said well, it’s not like I barely know you and I’m asking for a commitment. We have kids and we are about to get divorced.
So what does a side husband look like to you? Because honestly you seem like one right now.
[quote=Steve_] It’s in or out, I honestly do love you but I certainly don’t need this.

Ok so she's out. Now what? What changes?

She bought me dinner i played cards with her mom and her and then I left.

See to me this sounds like a side husband who's W is out aka "friendzone"

I felt like.. nothing.

hmmmmmmmm?

Like i felt bad for her in a way that her games aren’t working on me.

hmmmmmmmm?

She said “don’t get drunk and come over here, or text me ultimatums, you know I don’t like that” I laughed in her face and just got in my truck.

She is mocking you here Steve. Total display of disrespect!

At this point both of us are a trainwreck.

I can not disagree with this statement right now.

But it was nice to have a really good looking woman be all over me and pretty much have the strength to friend zone her cause I’m not needing another drama bomb.

hmmmmmmm? Feels like their may be an ulterior motive here

A nurse I’m not into asked me to come over and just do the thing.

What thing?

Posted a pic and tons of my friends are telling me how great I’m looking.

hmmmmmmm? Feels like their may be an ulterior motive here

And my WW goes on a date with a dude. Tonight.

You could set your watch by it

I hear it because my friends seen her. And you know what I said? LOL... she almost had me.

almost?

I made a study group to help two buddies from work through nursing school. They are coming this week. Also I am taking my kids hiking with a bunch of nurses and friends at work this week.

This is good stuff!

Am I’m okay? No. So I love my wife.. yes I do. But I know it’s over. And it [censored] but I’m gonna be okay.

Steve you will NEVER be ok until you get off the roller coaster