Steve_letting go part 3.

[MrBrside]

WW got me a pair of nikes made for nurses that I wanted. Told me she wants to go to Hawaii with me in a month and the kids. To take the time off work. Became very sweet. I went over to her moms to get mine and my kids hair cut and she asked me to go hiking, to come over etc etc. I just sat there and looked at her in the most like are you serious look I could muster and said “honey I’m not a side husband. You can be single or you can be with me fixing this, it’s not both.” She just said “well I’m not even going out of doing anything just be patient let me see if this is what I want” I laughed and said well, it’s not like I barely know you and I’m asking for a commitment. We have kids and we are about to get divorced. It’s in or out, I honestly do love you but I certainly don’t need this. She looked really surprised. She said “just let it happen naturally” legit her mom and sister heard it and called her a dumbass in her language. She bought me dinner i played cards with her mom and her and then I left. I felt like.. nothing. Like i felt bad for her in a way that her games aren’t working on me. I only shrugged when she reached for a hug. She then got mad. I asked her to take the kids early so I could go out with friends. She said “don’t get drunk and come over here, or text me ultimatums, you know I don’t like that” I laughed in her face and just got in my truck. She actually thought I would try it lmao.

Steve,

you are making great progress, and i applaud you for not jumping into bed with other women. You dont need this in your life now, so well done..

However the above is just too much interaction. I just hope your children didnt see it.

Let her mother cut their hair - As for you, i would stick to drop offs and collections and stay at the door / in your truck.

This is WAY too much interaction, and your WW ( she really is a piece of work ) is trying to manipulate.

For your part, you are still implying you would reconcile with this piece of work - Which i find insane. She will draw you in and spit you out for the rest of your life if you all - she will not change !