Originally Posted by Ace_32
WW just message me asking if im busy then tried to call me, i didnt respond or answer. Im having a braai with some family at the moment. Not sure what she wants but i doubt its anything good after not hearing from her in almost 6 weeks.

Have her send you an email with the information so you can digest it and ignore it / respond rationally without hearing it off the cuff and reacting with emotions.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21