Im getting by and feeling a little bit better each day.
My L seem to be pretty good. She already pointed out where stbxw's lawyer has been making some procedure mistakes.I'm glad she's on my team. She's given me a hug at the end of each meeting, which is nice When I went in there last week, I told L I didn't want to file, but the weekends events were the last straw. L explained how strategically it would benefit us to file first, so I said do it.
Im just bummed about stbxw's romantic weekend. I know i need to detach, but that was the future we planned. Now it's her future with OM funded with half of my retirement. Truly discouraging.
