SteveLW, i actually did go to the movies by myself years ago before i met stbxw and i didnt mind it that much. Have gone for dinner here alone and for a drink by myslef once or twice. Dont have anything to say to her really anymore except to ask if she has filed but there is no point in contacting her for that now, just using the time i have left being married to work on myself. I dont want to date or see other woman until the divorce is final but i probably need more time before im ready for that anyway.
BL42 yeah im definitely glad we didnt have any kids, i was at the point in my life where i was starting to want to have kids. I know im still young and there is alot of time left to figure things out and move on, things will start to come right it just takes time to move forward from this. I have no idea what the future holds, but everything will work out the way it is meant to and maybe one day i will realise that this is the best thing that ever happened to me but im not at that point yet.
OnlyBent i agree just got to focus on what i can control and do my best each day, there is nothing else to do at this point. SA is good, staying in one of the mowt beautiful places in the country so not too bad. Considering starting to learn how to surf again soon. You in Aus hey? I watch english pl and i am a Man Utd fan, and you?
Me 32, W 24 T 6, M 3 No kids BD: Aug 2020 OM: Jan 2021 Wife to file soon
