Trying to heal from WW

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Ace_32,

Sorry to hear about your sitch. I'll repeat what others said earlier, but the good news is you don't have kids with her. That'll make detaching and moving on much easier. Those of us with kids (especially young ones) have much more complicated situations and often times have to interact several times a week which doesn't help. Not that I'd ever take back my children, but at this point certainly wish they weren't from my W!

Go out, improve yourself, and live life. You're fairly young compared to many on this board. All the time in the world to meet new people (friends or more) and enjoy yourself. Maybe she'll come crawling back and maybe she won't...either way you can be happy.

Btw, some great quotes in your thread...

as I describe it, its like skating on ice and everything I did wrong in my STBXW's eyes thinned the ice, yet nothing I did could ever thicken it again. The ice was always doomed to crack...

If you wanted a bank teller to give you $100 for free, they'd say no, and they wouldn't fight.

Lucky for you that was the best thing that ever happened to you. You just don't know it yet.