Dear Elbereth,

I agree with Kind that you sound very strong to be able to interact with him the way you are, and with May that staying the course you're on with the post-nuptials and divorce sounds smart--it protects you while revealing his doubts. I'm sorry you're going through this. It's shocking this can happen even to the best people. I believe in you as someone who will come out on top no matter what. ((Hugs))