Originally Posted by Ace_32
Hi OnlyBent, thanks for checking in. Honestly not too much to report on my side, still haven't heard from WW in over a month and havent contacted her. Also no divorce papers yet.

Been keeping up to date with my podcasts and exercising, slacking a little on the reading and still leaning on my crutches too much. Also not really meeting new people as i mostly just do my own thing and the area i am in is very seasonal and quiet at the moment.

Took a look at your latest update, it sounds like you are doing nicely and its great that you are getting your confidence back. Anniversaries are always tough, i haven't gotten to mine yet but i can imagine it will be quite emotional when it does happen. It is just another day, but it will be difficult not to think back on memories and its also a reminder of what has happened and been lost.


Ace, this is a fantastic update. Good job on remaining NC, that is your best plan of action at the moment. And good job focusing on you in this update. I know GAL can seem like a struggle at times, but stick with it. GAL doesn't always mean hanging out with others, etc. It can also be a long drive listening to your favorite album! Or going to some form of entertainment, alone! I remember I had a buddy that would go to the movies alone back when we were young, and I would think "that has to be awful". The first time I went to a movie alone I absolutely loved it! So get creative.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018