What could/should I actually do, short of moving out? What action should I be taking vs. what is just an illusion of action? What is leaving him to deal with the choices he's made on his own versus not doing enough to take control of my life?
I feel like you need an internal shift. Prayer and meditation works for me. Loving kindness meditation and asking for guidance, then going about your life and waiting for the answer is what comes to me as an answer to your question.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
