Jealous? I never was, she was unfaithful once as we were dating before S7 was born
Were the two of you just dating.......or were you living together? Big difference there. Your signature information says you've only been married five years, but together for ten. So, S7 was born before you were actually married, right?
First time I remember you ever saying anything about her cheating during that time. Did you react much the same way as when she left you, smothering & pressuring her? Did she have remorse for cheating on you and ask for forgiveness, or did she refuse to talk about it? I'm asking how it was resolved. Do you see any similar actions in your W currently, that you saw back when she cheated on you?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
