Thanks for your input, Job and Cadet. I agree about the name of the board, and have seen a few newcomers become frustrated when we would try to encourage them to focus on themselves (goals, 180's, GAL, etc.). They would say something like, "If I wanted a self-improvement course, I would have went somewhere else. I thought this board was about busting divorces."
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
