I have always thought yours was different that your w only had one foot out the door when most have two.
I’ll give you another prediction. You’ll know in May. If she wants to reup the lease I would get a lawyer and settle into the family home because she has no intention on coming home.
You know why I get batty because I’m pretty sure if I would have used tough love in my situation I could have saved my marriage. Luckily for me with hindsight and the rose colored glasses coming off I’ve never been happier. It took a long time but I clearly see my exw was not worth fighting for after all.
So all I can do is pass along what I’ve learned and some people like my advice and some don’t. That I certainly can’t control.