And LH, I wasn't referring to your advice specifically in/re GTFO. I just feel that there is a very cookie-cutter approach here quite frequently, particularly for LBHs, that equates to man up/take your b@lls back/NMMNG/kick her out unless she immediately ends her A/gets off dating sites/whatever, which of course is completely outside of the LBH's control, so effectively is kick her out.
So May I would like to see some support on these claims. Take some time over the weekend.
Originally Posted by may22
Blu touched on this in her post the other day on how things have changed on this board. I don't have experience pre 2019 here, but like WF I find the MLC board much kinder and open to helping the LBS find their own path through their mess rather than this board, right now.
So I am going to disagree with you here too. When I started here 6 years ago there were at least 3 posters Doodler, Jeep and Texhubby whose every post was kick that lying cheating WW out of the house and move on. Early on I was like WTF? This is suppose to be a marriage saving board. Well now that I have lived through it I understand what they were saying. Most WWs aren't worth it. They are not good people. It's the reality of it. Now having said that I am not saying I have never suggest drastic measures (new Steve and Curtis come to mind). But that is not my opening line nor do I see that from many posters.
