I guess we could go round and round trying to determine if she’s a mostly good person with issues who slipped, or she’s a pos who put on an act for 27 years. I think it was the former, but at this point she’s on the dark side and not coming back soon.
Probably somewhere in between.
Originally Posted by NickWing
I had access to her phone, but not her email. One of the few things she said in the last year which I believe is that she has a male confidant whose name never came up because she knew that contact was inappropriate That is proven by her journal. I guess she could keep in touch by email. There were other little dishonesties over the years but I kind of shrugged them off. We agreed to find out our babies gender at birth, I found out later she knew and pretended to be surprised at their birth.
Yep it starts out with the white lies then like a drug addict it morphs into the hard stuff.
Originally Posted by NickWing
Do I think things were amazing all the time. No. But The good times far out weighed the less than perfect times. She was a person I respected the most, she got an Ivy League masters degree despite very humble beginnings. We rased 2 kids together.
I get it Nick just don't be surprised that as time goes by you start to remember things differently.
Originally Posted by NickWing
Oh, stbxw just texts me that she will not be home Friday and Saturday night. This idont know why she just didn’t move out when I asked her to.Hope this increased infatuation bodes well for the negotiations.
She probably has no where to go. Yep use any guilt to your advantage.
